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Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts
Monday, March 28, 2011
You know that friend you have, the one you talk to about everything, the one you've known for years, the one you call your "best friend"
Well, you know that day when she comes to you and tells you she's met a boy and she really likes him but she's nervous about what could happen and of course like everybody, she has worries and asks her "best friend" for advice and of course you talk to her and help her get through it and help her get through all her problems as a matter of fact but little did you know that she would forget you when that relationship took off.
As immature as it sounds and as immature as it is, it happens. Even to the "best of friends" it happens. I've known of some people who have thought it was normal that all you need in life is you're spouse and your kids because it is their own little world, their own little family, etc. But is that all they need? The people who blow off their friends, arn't they the same people you see married with kids who end up wanting more in life? EVERYBODY needs a friend. As serious as your relationship may be you can't revolve your life around when your boyfriend is busy so that you can make other plans with the friend, the one that was ALWAYS there for you. But thats what they end up doing "I can only hang out when he works or when he's busy" oh and then when you end up hanging out, they can't even put their phone down from talking to them. Besides the fact it looks desperate, it's also terribly rude. But it's okay I guess you were never a real friend anyway.
Well, you know that day when she comes to you and tells you she's met a boy and she really likes him but she's nervous about what could happen and of course like everybody, she has worries and asks her "best friend" for advice and of course you talk to her and help her get through it and help her get through all her problems as a matter of fact but little did you know that she would forget you when that relationship took off.
As immature as it sounds and as immature as it is, it happens. Even to the "best of friends" it happens. I've known of some people who have thought it was normal that all you need in life is you're spouse and your kids because it is their own little world, their own little family, etc. But is that all they need? The people who blow off their friends, arn't they the same people you see married with kids who end up wanting more in life? EVERYBODY needs a friend. As serious as your relationship may be you can't revolve your life around when your boyfriend is busy so that you can make other plans with the friend, the one that was ALWAYS there for you. But thats what they end up doing "I can only hang out when he works or when he's busy" oh and then when you end up hanging out, they can't even put their phone down from talking to them. Besides the fact it looks desperate, it's also terribly rude. But it's okay I guess you were never a real friend anyway.
Friday, August 6, 2010
via Summer Brown
Best Friends. I have amazing ones... One where when you had a crappy day and you're up at 2 o'clock, they're up talking to you. Thank you Leslie & Yanni +
And this friend in particular.... for moving in down the street next to me so we can hang out all the time!
Me on left, Mari on right
Spending almost the entire day with the girl above & making these delicious cupcakes! With PROFESSIONAL frosting (No really, she does that for a profession) and my fabulous sprinkle job. We just might go into business together.
Fabulously Flawed Campaign. Send them pictures to my email ladies & don't miss out on getting to help out young woman around the world and win a fabulous purse holder, by doing it! Just 4 more days!!
Happy Friday... What are you in + with?
via Summer Brown
Best Friends. I have amazing ones... One where when you had a crappy day and you're up at 2 o'clock, they're up talking to you. Thank you Leslie & Yanni +
And this friend in particular.... for moving in down the street next to me so we can hang out all the time!
Me on left, Mari on right
Spending almost the entire day with the girl above & making these delicious cupcakes! With PROFESSIONAL frosting (No really, she does that for a profession) and my fabulous sprinkle job. We just might go into business together.
Fabulously Flawed Campaign. Send them pictures to my email ladies & don't miss out on getting to help out young woman around the world and win a fabulous purse holder, by doing it! Just 4 more days!!
Happy Friday... What are you in + with?
Thursday, November 12, 2009
"Friends are the most important ingredient in this recipe of life."
When I was 6, I had the best friend in the entire world. He came into my life, right after my daddy passed away. He made me laugh constantly till I peed my chonies and he would never laugh that I did. He would never make me share my toys unless I wanted too. He never forgot to say, he loved me. He would always let me win at games. He cried when I cried and he laughed when I laughed. He and I were inseparable.
and then on my 10th birthday he left. He came over, and he told me he was leaving. I couldn't understand why. All I could think of was that I've done something wrong. Did I not share enough? Did I forget to say I love him? Did I pull his hair too hard?
He told me that I am 10 now and I should no longer have an imaginary friend. It was time for real ones and then he was gone.
My heart broke at that moment and it still hurts till this day. Sure, he was imaginary, and call me crazy for having an imaginary friend, but he was the best friend a girl could have, made up or not.
Boyfriend doesn't understand why I only have close guy friends. He secretly hates that if I have a problem I call up my friend Robert. Boyfriend constantly tells me, "call up so and so and go out." Disclaimer: I am NOT a loser... Ok, lies, I might be. So what? He told me the other day, and I know he didn't mean it hurtful but it hurt: "I'm glad you're starting to hang out with Mari more. It's not healthy to just have computer friends." BURN!! If he only knew... People don't understand the relationship that form over blogging, and I wont even begin to try and explain it, cause if you haven't felt it, you wont begin to understand.
Why do I not have girlfriends? Hmm, I don't know. I ask myself that question too. I think I'm hilarious (maybe I think I am more hilarious than I am) but I make people laugh, so it can't be that I'm not funny... Ugly? well, im not kate hudsen, but don't girls secretly want their friends to be semi less attractive than them, so they look better? if so, then thats not the problem.... Do I smell? *sniffs armpits*. Nope don't smell, I work at a perfume shop, commmon.... So why don't I have girlfriends?
Well maybe it's a choice. (Plus, no friend could match up to my imaginary buddy.) but honestly, why have best friends when they let you down? I am ALL for second chances, hell i'm all for fifth chances... but there is only so much you can do before the damage is done.
10 years old: Best Imaginary friend decides I need real ones. (anytime you wanna come back- I'm here. I promise I wont pull your hair no mow.)
13 year old: Best friend stole my N'SYNC shirt and gave it to her other best friend. Umm not cool, girlfriend, NOT COOL.
16 years old: Best friend held hands with my boyfriend. Really sister? You little tramp!
19 years old: Best friend sleeps with my boyfriend. # 1- he was an jerk, just because you're not getting some from me, doesn't mean its ok to go elsewhere. #2- what kinda best friend does that?
and after all this I still crave it... I still crave the chocolate chips to my cookie. but you know what? I found her.
This girl would never sleep with my boyfriend or steal my N'SYNC shirt and she MAKES me coookies, WITH chocolate chips. All the ingredients are there.
Thank you Marisela... For making me remember what its like to have a friend you can trust in. You're an amazing person, inside and out.
Enjoy these photos. They pretty much make me pee in my pants!
"Friends are the most important ingredient in this recipe of life."
When I was 6, I had the best friend in the entire world. He came into my life, right after my daddy passed away. He made me laugh constantly till I peed my chonies and he would never laugh that I did. He would never make me share my toys unless I wanted too. He never forgot to say, he loved me. He would always let me win at games. He cried when I cried and he laughed when I laughed. He and I were inseparable.
and then on my 10th birthday he left. He came over, and he told me he was leaving. I couldn't understand why. All I could think of was that I've done something wrong. Did I not share enough? Did I forget to say I love him? Did I pull his hair too hard?
He told me that I am 10 now and I should no longer have an imaginary friend. It was time for real ones and then he was gone.
My heart broke at that moment and it still hurts till this day. Sure, he was imaginary, and call me crazy for having an imaginary friend, but he was the best friend a girl could have, made up or not.
Boyfriend doesn't understand why I only have close guy friends. He secretly hates that if I have a problem I call up my friend Robert. Boyfriend constantly tells me, "call up so and so and go out." Disclaimer: I am NOT a loser... Ok, lies, I might be. So what? He told me the other day, and I know he didn't mean it hurtful but it hurt: "I'm glad you're starting to hang out with Mari more. It's not healthy to just have computer friends." BURN!! If he only knew... People don't understand the relationship that form over blogging, and I wont even begin to try and explain it, cause if you haven't felt it, you wont begin to understand.
Why do I not have girlfriends? Hmm, I don't know. I ask myself that question too. I think I'm hilarious (maybe I think I am more hilarious than I am) but I make people laugh, so it can't be that I'm not funny... Ugly? well, im not kate hudsen, but don't girls secretly want their friends to be semi less attractive than them, so they look better? if so, then thats not the problem.... Do I smell? *sniffs armpits*. Nope don't smell, I work at a perfume shop, commmon.... So why don't I have girlfriends?
Well maybe it's a choice. (Plus, no friend could match up to my imaginary buddy.) but honestly, why have best friends when they let you down? I am ALL for second chances, hell i'm all for fifth chances... but there is only so much you can do before the damage is done.
10 years old: Best Imaginary friend decides I need real ones. (anytime you wanna come back- I'm here. I promise I wont pull your hair no mow.)
13 year old: Best friend stole my N'SYNC shirt and gave it to her other best friend. Umm not cool, girlfriend, NOT COOL.
16 years old: Best friend held hands with my boyfriend. Really sister? You little tramp!
19 years old: Best friend sleeps with my boyfriend. # 1- he was an jerk, just because you're not getting some from me, doesn't mean its ok to go elsewhere. #2- what kinda best friend does that?
and after all this I still crave it... I still crave the chocolate chips to my cookie. but you know what? I found her.
This girl would never sleep with my boyfriend or steal my N'SYNC shirt and she MAKES me coookies, WITH chocolate chips. All the ingredients are there.
Thank you Marisela... For making me remember what its like to have a friend you can trust in. You're an amazing person, inside and out.
Enjoy these photos. They pretty much make me pee in my pants!
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